| Having fun kayaking in Hoi Ha Wan in Sai Kung |
Friends asked me if I had a bucket list to complete before leaving Hong Kong, but I didn't and instead they took me to their favourite places.
One took me on my first kayaking adventure in Hoi Ha Wan, a marine reserve at the north of Sai Kung Peninsula. We went on an overcast weekday to avoid the crowds, but ironically I still got sunburnt on my arms.
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| The amazing sunset we saw at Devil's Peak |
But overall it was so nice to be out in nature, with no one else around except us, the water and nature. After we came home I could still hear the whoosh of the water from paddling in my ears hours later.
On another day she took me up to Devil's Peak where we watched a stunning sunset over Hong Kong. Where we stood we could see both Hong Kong Island and Kowloon close together and the sun setting in between.
Even though we went on a weekday it was popular that day with locals all wanting that perfect Instagram shot. So when we decided to leave, we were pleasantly surprised to find other fantastic views of the sunse with hardly anyone around.
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| Looking down on Repulse Bay |
She also took me hiking from Tai Tam to Stanley. It was a nice easy walk, not too hot as it was mostly shaded by trees. By the end we worked up an appetite and had a quasi Reuben sandwich (no sauerkraut but caramelised onions) each with fries and a Caesar salad. Afterwards we took in the sunset which we couldn't see directly, but a soft pink glow in the sky.
When an acquaintance heard I was leaving he insisted on taking me to Japanese yakitori place Toritama. The last time I was there was when it opened, so it seemed like coming full circle. There were so many different skewers to try, including cock's comb -- literally the comb, five or six of them grilled together. Literally nothing was wasted!
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| Chopped firefly squid with a mayonnaise sauce |
Eating at this pace as items were being cooked was a great way to have a conversation that was not rushed and enjoyable. We also ate sancho peppers, grilled brussels sprouts, cheese melted on a stick, and soy sauce ice cream for dessert.
Yet another Japanese meal with another acquaintance was had at Nagamoto restaurant, where chef Nagamoto heard I was leaving and one of the courses was presented a boat (as a metaphor for my departure) and wrote in Japanese calligraphy that he wished me well on my journey!
If that wasn't enough, at the end of our meal my chopsticks were presented back to me in a special wooden case to take back home as a souvenir!
I also went to Mui Wo twice to catch up with two different friends. One took me on a walk around Pui O which was also a nice change from the urban landscape, where we visited a deserted rundown temple by the water. My other friend finally introduced me to his one and a half year old dog Cookie, a mutt he had fostered as a puppy and later decided to adopt.
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| A non government beach at Pui O |
A colleague also wanted to cook for me before I left, and brought over some homestyle dishes from Wuhan, but luckily the spice level was turned way down for me. One was a chopped chicken stir-fried with peppers and lotus root, the other sliced beef with celtuce.
More food was supplied by another ex-colleague who brought fried rice, vegetables and a very spicy chicken dish I didn't dare touch! We had a good time reminiscing and talking about our experiences and how this shaped our work.
I also managed to squeeze in time to find the block of flats where my dad grew up in Kowloon. Many decades later it is still there, in very good condition.
But perhaps the most important thing for me was visiting my grandparents' graves.
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| Cookie was excited to see us! |
The over two years of the pandemic has made my relatives terrified of the virus and even though they are triple jabbed and had promised to take me to the cemetery, they were very scared of venturing out. So I asked them for the addresses of the graves and luckily a friend offered to take me there.
It was a very hot day and it was a sweaty ordeal walking around in the heat trying to find my maternal grandmother's grave. We were in the right section, but I could not find her and despaired, but not before we walked further up the terraced hill and finally found her.
As for my grandfather's grave I completely forgot how far apart they were -- we had to take a taxi to get there, and soon after we arrived we were able to locate him.












































